Horoscope

My sister emailed me a love calculator based on horoscopes. Not that I'm an avid believer of horoscopes, but I do believe that people born in certain times of the year have certain similar traits. Just out of boredom... let's see what this calculator says about me :).

Astrology

Libra, just as its symbol (scales) suggests, is all about balance and justice. Librans are very diplomatic and usually can get what they want without a fight. Their charming nature allows them to get along with people quite easily. Librans are also quite adventurous, they like traveling and partying. In fact by some Libra is considered as the most hard-partying sign of the zodiac. Weather it is true or not, they all have a good taste for fun.

Getting along with people is really one of Libra’s talents. However this also means that very often Libra individuals place too much importance on what other think about them. Libra always tries to avoid conflict and live in harmony with others, but sometimes this leads to problems piling up and not being solved, until there are too many to take. For the most part these people are very easy-going, but there is one thing that they really dislike and it is when somebody is being unjust and is unwilling to compromise. One of Libra’s biggest flaws is their indecisiveness.

Librans are very romantic at heart and always want to have someone by their side. Relationships to them are like an adventure, and they expect their partner to know how to make it fun and worthwhile. Librans usually have a good taste for expensive things, be it clothes, food, or places they go to.

Overall Librans are very fun loving, easy-going and charming people; they are definitely the ones you would want to join a party with. If there are any problems, they will be willing to help, and with their talents of diplomacy they can be very useful.

How to seduce Libra?

* Learn to compromise and be rational
* Compliment them
* Dress with style
* Talk about relationships

The following is what you should not do, if you want a Libra person to like you:

* Be arrogant
* Be cheap
* Be unfriendly to others

Love traits

* Romantic
* Caring
* It’s hard to make a Libran commit, but once they do, their love is
unquestionable
* Very peaceful and will try to avoid any fights
* Likes to flirt, even when in a relationship, but it’s rarely anything to worry
about
* Fair and just

Sex habits
Foreplay, dirty talk, some more foreplay, the action, the action with toys and that is what makes up good sex plan for a Libran. If on top of all that you could also add some luxury that would be the best. Libras are known for their exquisite, expensive tastes, so if one can satisfy it too, then the happy Libra is all theirs. However, remember to be careful not to let the smart Scales person use you, since their charms can work wonders when they want something.

Libra’s diplomacy shows even after they had sex, when they’ll say something like - "I liked it if you liked it."

Sometimes we forget.....

Today is actually a really good day for me. Despite all the crisis with the company and stuff, I think I may have actually put to rest one issue on my head which in a way gave me a real sense of relief.

Libras are highly emotionally driven beings. But as they age, they become less expressive and tend to mellow down a bit. Even so, they always strive to achieve balance and they suck at living alone. A slight reassurance that you would not be alone is actually enough to boost a Libra to greater heights. The problem is, Libras usually want direct answers, yes or no - not anything in between. So relationship tangos do drive them up the wall. The guessing game although exhilarating to begin with, sometimes would not last the mood swing of the Libra when played too long.

Still, the events of today (which I shall not reveal what), had given me a whole new perspective towards my life. In a way, it reminded me how much I have lost sight of who I really am. I guess I have been so depressed with all the happenings around me that I forget my pledge to be life's scholar. God is teaching me something new this year - independence. Prior to this, it was a long lesson on patience. Now it is on independence. Not just external independence but internal as well. I am an independent and talented lady on the outside, but inside I do admit that I am chained by unnecessary emotional dependence towards men.

Perhaps it was the upbringing of always trying to get my father's approval, which later led to always wanting a guy's approval to the things I do. Did it help me much? Well, if you look at it one way - maybe it did give a boost of confidence. But when you dissect each and every situation, the emotional dependence part is all crap. My divorce proved it. I told myself before that my success was because my ex was there for me to hold my hand, but the truth is - even without him, I would have still graduated to be a doctor, perhaps without him I wouldn't have caused a lot of issues with my father, and maybe my life would have been better off, and I would be a pediatric specialist by now. Then maybe I would meet a more deserving guy who understood and appreciated my talent except for spending 6 years of my life slaving away to a guy that doesn't even recognize half of my value.

Now without him or any guy I have a great business which although has its hiccups, but at least it is something I love doing and always wanted. I'm finally enjoying my womanhood with a greater meaning, and motherhood becomes less stressful because I do not need to pretend to be anyone else but myself. I have resolved a lot of my past issues like relationships with my dad and my step mum, relationships between siblings, I made a great deal number of new and more rational friends and I love myself more by taking care of myself for me.

Now I just need to get it into my head that I do not need emotional dependence towards any guy. Yes, I do need some emotional support, but perhaps stability of emotions is more important and that can only be achieved by being independent emotionally. Initial I believed that to solve my emotional turmoil, I needed to find an emotionally stable guy - but realistically, no emotionally stable guy would be crazy enough to attempt to be with a woman who is so emotionally unstable. So the lesson here is to achieve emotional independence. I must train myself to be emotionally stable. I can live with myself, I just need to love myself more. Overall, this would bring a more comprehensive meaning of happiness, and stability in other platforms of my life.

Its late, I need to sleep. I have a lot of creative thinking and writing to do tomorrow. For whatever transpired today, it was wonderful. I'm truly happy.